Thursday, January 13, 2011

A FAMILY JOURNAL: FATHER TO SON ABOUT "LEAVE"- VOLUME 9

The journal you are about to read is part of an ongoing dialogue.  The words are a conversation between "the family" of
the soldier experience.  It's Dads, Moms, Sons,  Daughters,  Relatives and Friends sharing their thoughts of a particular day and/or it could be the soldiers journal entry detailing his or hers.  I believe there are many, many people keeping a journal through the Afghan War.  If you want to share an entry of yours email it to jkmyfathersvoice@gmail.com  Your post will be strictly confidential,  no names will be used.  In addition, locations overseas will not be mentioned for security purposes except the country of origin.  Some editing may be done to further protect the journal participant.

This might be my favorite journal posting that I've ever written.....gosh, what am I saying?  Without question this is my favorite journal posting......you're coming home on leave!!!

When I finish writing these words, I'll hop in the truck and head for the airport to pick you up.  It's been a long five days since you told me paperwork had been completed for your "leave" and when you finally touched down in the states.  What a journey.  Afghanistan to Kuwait, to Dallas, then Chicago and then Des Moines.  It's been even harder to keep this a surprise for your Mom!  I can be sneaky at times....well, that's probably not the best word to use, how about I say creative as we put together a great "gotcha" moment?  It will be emotional to say the least to see your mother "melt" when she sees you for the first time, in a LONG time.  Heck, I'll probably do that when we connect at DM International.   

The uniform comes off for 2 weeks
During the last several days, mom has asked repeatedly if I've heard from you.  I told her you were out on a mission and would be back on Wednesday or Thursday.  My guess is, if she had to go much longer not hearing from you, she'd hop a plane herself to Afghanistan.  So, these are a couple of thoughts I have as I get ready to head out.

First off, I want this to be a relaxing time for you.  It's your two weeks and you need some rest and relaxation.  Secondly, I hope we have some great one-on-one time that allows you to talk about anything and everything you'd like.  And thirdly, help me to make you laugh and cut up. I want to hear that funny laugh of yours again!

I've heard about many soldiers leave time that have turned into "nightmares" for both the soldier and his/her family.  I'm sure there are preconceived thoughts as to what each wants to take place during those two weeks.  I'm not going into this with anything other than your wishes and desires to be met.

In addition to your Mom and brother's moment, I'm most interested to see our dog Mason's reaction to hearing your voice.  Our first Golden, Nala, was a smiler.  Mason is getting better at expressing himself.  I think he has a big grin stored up for you.  He has missed you alot.  His, go-Mace-goes are prime for the snow covered yard.  Oh.....yeah, sorry about that.  I tried to hold off on the snow coming.  I know you don't like it any better than I do.  I'm sure you'll have to be happy with just starting up that new motorcycle and listening to it purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....and dream what it would be like to take it for a spin.  Knowing you though, my guess is that on any warm day we get, you'll peel around the block, right?

Okay....I think I'm ready to shut this post down.  It's been almost six months since we've seen you....and it seems like six years.  I hope you remember me.  I'll be the short little guy with a smile a mile wide and tears streaming down his cheeks.  Welcome home son!!!!

YGG,

John

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

A WORD FOR IOWA GUARDSMAN SGT. BRIAN PFEILER

There are many words that come to mind when you hear a story of something that's heart-breaking, tragic or impossible to process.  Such was the case last week, when Sgt. Brian Pfeiler of Earlville, was wounded in action in Afghanistan.  Some of those words that float around in your head and yes, even sometimes said, are ones we regret.  Sometimes it's a four-letter word that slips out....which can give you a guilty feeling of "where did that come from?"

I'll have to admit to you, that, that was me, last week.  I didn't say anything with a bad four-letter word connotation, but I was close.  I'll leave it to your imagination as to the words I could have brought forth.  I'm learning to be reactionary with words of integrity rather than anger.  It's safe to say, some days are better than others.

Sgt. Brian Pfeiler of Earville, Iowa
Pfeiler became Iowa's first major casualty of the Afghan War this past Thursday when he stepped on a landmine while on foot patrol.  Reports indicate that Pfeiler lost his right foot in the explosion. He is a member of Dubuque's Company D, 1st Battalion, 133rd Infantry Regiment Task Force Ironman.  The Guard says the mine blast occurred in the eastern province of Laghman. 

"I was notified by the military Thursday morning about 8:40 (Iowa time)," said Kate, Pfeiler's wife of five years. "They said, 'I have some news to tell you. Your husband's been injured. He stepped on a landmine and had an injury to his right leg.' They told me he was stable."

Okay, picture that for a minute.  You're Mrs .Pfeiler and you hear the news...your husband has been injured.   How do you react?  What comes to mind?  What words come forth from your mouth? 

Today, I was doing some reading before making some calls pertaining to this story.  More than anything, I was trying to put myself in a different pair of shoes.  And these words jumped off the page at me.  MERCY.  The author of the piece was talking about when things happen that frustrate, disappoint as well as encourage and provide joy, say MERCY.  So, from this then, I had to make sure what mercy meant, "a blessing that is an act of divine favor or compassion".

With that word in mind, I made a call to Earlville hoping to connect with the Pfeiler family.  That wasn't the case though as Susan Mensen, the Post Commander's Wife of the American Legion in Earville told me, "the Pfeilers are en route to see Brian right now".  MERCY.

Mrs. Mensen and I had a great talk.  She told me of the supportive community the Pfeiler's hail from.  This past weekend, members of the American Legion Post 436 met at her home to discuss ways they can help the Pfeiler's...spaghetti dinner's and the like.  This is what small towns do you know, they come together.

Mensen went on to say that the days ahead will be difficult for Brian, his wife Kate and young daughter, Madison.  The important thing will be "not to get ahead of yourself", she mentioned.  "Earlville is about community and family...we'll take it one day at a time".

On the night of the accident, friends and family came to the Pfeiler's house.  The expressions on the faces of those in attendance were ones of concern and anxiousness.  Little Madison sensed something was going on as people spoke about Brian.  Her question brought a tear to many that evening as she voiced, "Where's Daddy?" 

The days will be long and winding for the Pfeiler's.  They will have needs no doubt.  For the short term, those are being handled through the military.  There will be future needs......and should you have a desire to help, you can.

American Legion Post 436, of Earlville has announced the formation of the "Sgt. Brian Pfeiler Family Fund," which is accepting monetary donations to assist Pfeiler and his family.  Monetary donations should be sent to Post 436, P.O. Box 64, Earlville, Iowa 52041.  For more information, contact Will Gibson at 563-608-2529 or Loras Mensen at 563-923-6335.

MERCY, MERCY MERCY................


YGG,

John

Monday, January 10, 2011

OUR NEWSLEADERS FAIL US AGAIN

Saturday's shooting of Congresswoman Gabrielle Giffords points out continued issues within our news agencies in reporting the news.  Several 24-hour news groups reported Giffords had died from a gunshot wound to the head, which of course, we found out later, was not the "truth", the "whole truth" or "nothing but the truth".   Decisions were made in a mad rush to get the story out before confirming the accuracy of  reports. 

Candlelight vigil outside Congressman Giffords' office

As I see it, it's hard to fault the anchors of those networks mentioned.  They're doing their jobs as newsreaders and to expect them to verify every news account would be unrealistic.....it's the news directors, producers and reporters that should be taken to task.  That's their jobs.  The following is a report, hopefully accurate, that addresses this issue.

Giffords' Reported Death Shows Need for Accuracy

So, why am I so perturbed about this news inaccuracy?  Well first off, the attacks leveled at our news gatherers is a group I'm part of.  I am a graduate of a journalism school and I seem to remember in Reporting 101.....to get the facts straight.  Where has that thought process gone?  Secondly, I want to be informed just like anyone else, however, I would prefer it be with the right information.  Kind of like one group says...Fair and Accurate.  Over the years, my news brethren has stubbed its toe in the reporting of some huge news accounts.  Remember these headlines:


"PASSENGERS SAFELY MOVED AND STEAMER TITANIC TAKEN IN TOW" (April 15, 1912) The Christian Science Monitor reported not only that all aboard the Titanic had been saved, but that the ship had not even gone down. "Officials of White Star Company Confident Steamer is Unsinkable and Will Float until Halifax is Reached," read a subheadline.

"DEWEY DEFEATS TRUMAN" (November 3, 1948 by every major reporting agency)

"JFK RAPS FAULT-FINDERS IN NATION" (November 22, 1963) Early editions of afternoon newspapers carried an AP report of a speech that President John F. Kennedy had made in Dallas that day against opponents who "confuse rhetoric with reality." The article had been based on the text of the speech that Kennedy had prepared to make at the Dallas Trade Mart. Later editions reported that Kennedy had been assassinated while on the way to make the speech.

"FORD REPORTEDLY ACCEPTS NO. 2 SPOT ON GOP TICKET" (July 17, 1980) The Washington Post and other newspapers carrying the Post story by David S. Broder and Lou Cannon reported that former President (and Vice-President) Gerald R. Ford had accepted an offer to serve as Ronald Reagan's running mate at the GOP convention in Detroit.  Subsequent editions reflected that Reagan's primary opponent, George H. W. Bush, became the running mate after the deal with Ford fell through.  One Washington analyst changed the lead of a premature political obituary from "George Bush lost another war last night," to "George Bush finally won a war early this morning."

"CONGRESSMAN'S FLIGHT REPORTEDLY FORCED TO SOVIET ISLE" (September 1, 1983) An early UPI report from Seoul stated that "A Korean Air Lines jumbo jet flying from New York to Seoul Wednesday with 269 people aboard, including a U.S. Congressman, was forced to land on Sakhalin, a Soviet-occupied island north of Japan, the government-run television said. The passengers were reported safe.  Among them was Rep. Larry McDonald (D-GA), John Birch society chairman, whose spokesman said in Washington that American officials believed the jet was forced down by Soviet or North Korean fighter planes." Actually, KAL 007 was shot down and all 269 persons onboard were killed.

"KERRY'S CHOICE: DEM PICKS GEPHARDT AS VP CANDIDATE" (July 6, 2004) The New York Post erroneously stated that U.S. Presidential candidate John Kerry had chosen Dick Gephardt as his running mate, when in fact he had chosen John Edwards.

"'ALIVE!' Miners beat odds" (January 4, 2006) USA Today, the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette and other newspapers based headlines on erroneous reports that twelve out of the thirteen trapped coal miners survived the Sago Mine disaster, and CNN and Fox News had broadcast what turned out to be a miscommunication.  In reality, twelve out of the thirteen miners did not survive the incident.

As you can see, our newsleaders have made some serious blunders in reporting significant pieces of our history.  In this age where news travels faster than the speed of light, or so it seems, it is of even greater importance to get the facts straight.  It makes me wonder what the headines will say when Jesus returns...."MILLIONS DISAPPEAR, UFO'S SUSPECTED" or "CHRIST RETURNING, ARE YOU READY?"


YGG,

John

Friday, January 7, 2011

THERE'S MORE TO THE TED WILLIAMS STORY

I've really been focused in recent weeks to keep my ears and eyes open to what is going on around me.  Much more than ever.  Maybe that's what a blogger is here for.....to keep ideas moving and let the public put some kind of spin on them.  I'm so, so inclined to look at a story and dig deeper, because generally, there is  more to it than we ever know or hear.

This past week, you'd have to be a bear in hibernation to not have heard the name Ted Williams.  Williams is the golden throat, homeless, ex-disc jockey that had fallen on hard times.  He was lingering on the streets of Columbus, Ohio with a sign in hand, hoping and praying for another chance at life.  Well, it came and it came in a big way.

A number of weeks ago, a Columbus Dispatch videographer, Doral Chenoweth III, saw Williams on his way while running to a local Lowe's store.  He saw the sign, connected with Williams ever so briefly.  He returned a week later..  And now, "More of the Story".................

"Hey, I'm going to make you work for your dollar," Chenoweth said as he rolled down his window and took out his flip camera. "Let me hear you say something." What comes out of Williams' mouth is startling. It's a rich, baritone that doesn't match his craggy exterior at all.  His enunciation is crisp, his tone smooth as suede.

Williams isn't holding that cardboard sign anymore.  After Chenoweth posted the video, it went viral. Williams did interviews on national television and radio. He's received several jobs offers, including one that comes with a home.

But the other character in this contemporary parable had played this part before.  "The first time we dated, he stopped and gave a blanket from the back of his car to a man who was homeless," said Robin Chenoweth. "I thought to myself, if he has this kind of compassion for a man on the street, he's going to make a great husband and father."

Chenoweth is paid to notice people. He's a multimedia producer for The Columbis Dispatch newspaper in Ohio.  He said he stopped because he thought Williams might make a good video.  Still, he wasn't so sure after the filming.  He said he sat on the video for five weeks until he finally decided to use it because it was a slow news week. Then he watched the video take off.  "I never anticipated this," he said.  "A week ago, he was living in a tent behind a station in the middle of December, and now he's being flown to New York and his video is everywhere." 

Looking through the lens of faith
But the reason Chenoweth stopped goes deeper than his job.  It's "standard operating procedure" for him, he said, to stop and talk to people who are homeless, whether he's carrying a camera or not.  "It's part of my faith," he said after some prodding about his motivations.  "You may not be able to help someone with money, but you can at least say hello, how you doing, and look at them." 

Doral Chenoweth III, his wife, Robin, and their children Cassie and Kurtis went on a church mission trip to Tanzania.  About 14 years ago, Chenoweth said he was assigned to photograph a homeless ministry at New Life United Methodist Church in downtown Columbus. He was so impressed by the ability of the 50-member congregation to help the homeless that he and his wife joined.
Doral Chenoweth III and family
The church's pastor said that Chenoweth routinely invites people who are homeless to the church for meals and medical attention. He's also photographed people on the street and displayed their photographs to emphasize their humanity, said the Rev. Jennifer Kimball Casto, New Life's pastor.

When asked if she was surprised by Chenoweth's action, Casto said: "Absolutely not.  Doral has a special heart for people who are homeless and in need."  Chenoweth's concern for people goes beyond Columbus, and even the United States. His wife said they are regular Habitat for Humanity volunteers. They've also taken seven trips to Africa with their two children, Cassie, 12, and Kurtis, 10, to serve impoverished communities. Chenoweth has documented many of the trips on his website.

"He's taken me all over the world," Robin Chenoweth said. "He's a fabulous husband. It's the best decision of my life to be with him."   Chenoweth sounds thrilled to see where the new-found fame will take Williams.

He had a reunion with Williams after their video went viral. A local radio station interviewed Williams, and Chenoweth was there for the interview.  "We had a big hug and shook hands," Chenoweth said. "He almost cried when he saw me."  Chenoweth was watching a local radio station interview Williams when he saw something that touched him.  "He still has my business card," Chenoweth said.  "He's been carrying it the whole five weeks since I gave it to him. He was carrying it right in his fingertips."

Filming a visual parable
The Rev. Tom Long, a professor of preaching at the Candler School of Theology at Emory University in Atlanta, watched the video of Chenoweth's encounter and saw a visual parable unfold. It reminded him of Jesus' parable of the good Samaritan.

In the parable, a Samaritan stops to help a man wounded by robbers after two Jewish religious leaders -- a Levite and a priest -- pass the man by. The story was shocking because the hero was a villain -- Samaritans were a group of people hated by many 1st century Jews (imagine the parable of the Good Crack Dealer).

Chenoweth didn't see Williams as "visual white noise" to tune out, Long said. "He sees possibilities others don't see and acts on them and, wow, here we go," Long said.  Long said there's more to the story than the importance of treating people in need with compassion because miracles may happen. "His (Chenoweth) experiences expose what is already true about people, that even a homeless person who doesn't have a golden throat is nonetheless a child of God."  Casto, Chenoweth's pastor at New Life, said Chenoweth taught another lesson with his encounter with a panhandler.  "We are all broken in some way, but we are also gifted in some way," she said. "Mr. Williams is a perfect example of that."

The above mentioned  is from an CNN article dated January 6th.  Much has happened since then for sure. For one, the You Tube video has had over 13 million hits now!!!  The job offers keep coming in for Williams, which is so awesome, ......but I wonder what might also be ahead for this videographer that was moved by God's nudge. When I tried to reach Chenoweth at his office at the Dispatch, I was told that he was in New York.  I put a call into his cell and I'm hoping to hear back.  I hope I do, but if I don't, isn't it truly amazing to see God at work and how he uses people.  Both Williams and Chenoweth have had their lives altered.  Appears to me that God put them in the proper place at the proper time.  Wow, does he have great timing or what?

YGG,

John

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

CHANGES ARE COMING, FOR SURE

My wife, Joanne, and I were talking a little while ago about how different our lives have been in the last six months since our son, Kris, deployed and what new things will "crop" up in the not too distant future.  I'm sure we are not alone given the fact that 3,500 other Iowa Guard families are undergoing much of the same situation.  And let's not forget to mention all the thousands of other deployed soldiers that are stationed around the world.  How many do you think that is?

Well, if you take the 3,500 figure and add two zeroes behind it, you'll come pretty close. Can you imagine....over 350,000 U.S. troops are deployed in some 150 countries?  Doesn't that just seem incomprehensible?  As of August of 2010,  Afghanistan led with 98,000 military personnel, Germany was second with 57,080, Japan third with 32,803, South Korea fourth with 28,500, followed by Italy with 9,855.  Saint Helena and Antigua brought up the rear with 3 and 2 military personnel, respectively.  That's alot of lives that have made commitments and sacrifices to you and I and most likely, will be facing some difficult decisions in how their lives will play out in the coming months and years.

Let's talk about soldiers coming home from deployment first.  Many will return to jobs they once held in the private sector...some will join the unemployment ranks hoping to find a fit that will utilize the skills they've acquired....a number will have a deeper appreciation in their faith, while others will look to some other methods of coping... some will return to relationships that have gone south or marriages that will undergo huge tests....there will be marriages and births and adoptions.....and on and on and on. 

For those continuing to serve, there will no doubt be some issue that will determine the road ahead.  Where is our next outbreak of war going to come from?  I'm as queasy as the next person when I think of our next   involvement.  Many experts feel Iran is the next big powder keg ......certainly Pakistan is right there......and North and South Korea certainly have to be watched.  Who knows how many more countries are right on the edge?

North and South Korea at Odds
 I do know this....changes are happening at a terrific pace these days. Technology has been the big driver behind the wheel.  Hasn't this last generation been a bonanza for inventors?  These are the days when one-stop shopping and marrying our social media together are catch phrases.  Keeping up with the Jones' with your new cellphone is more fashionable than the home or car of years past.  On the flip side, small countries are as dangerous as ever given their threat of nuclear power.  That's a change, huh?   And the scary part is some of the leaders and countries with that same "power" are completely unfazed in their appreciation of human life.  Yup, these are all changes but it does beckon the question of whether Armageddon can be far off?

I'm not a political activist....far from it, but I am what you'd call a political realist.  The facts are....every new election calls for change.  Given that rally cry, I wonder what is truly meant, change for the better or change for the worse.  I see billions being spent on foolish, stupid programs.  Is it too difficult to imagine people with Harvard and Yale degrees to figure out a meaningful direction for our spending?  Now that would be a change.

 I'm trying hard to connect deeper to the world that we live in.  I'm sure I'm not alone in that thought.  Yet, I come back to the basics and my little world and some of the changes that are in store for our family. Here is what lies ahead for us...our oldest son coming back from overseas deployment, another son graduating AIT, our youngest son about to enter his senior year of high school.....a new job for my wife that has challenged her, yet rewarded her .....and me....continuing to blog about our experiences to an uncertain future.

Uncertainty is alright though.  It's during these times that you can reflect and transform your life.  You can appreciate what life is all about and the purpose of it.  It's here that you and I will both be able to see that....

God moves.  He is a moving God.  He is never still.  He is always effecting change in every sphere of Creation.  I think knowing that helps, how about you?


YGG,

John

Monday, January 3, 2011

TONY THE VET'S CROSS COUNTRY WALK

Many years ago a TV personality by the name of Art Linkletter hosted a show called, "House Party".  One segment within the series was a piece entitled, "Kids Say the Darndest Things".  I'm not sure where these young guests came from, but I will tell you that they came up with some great one-liners.  I would imagine some of their comments made their parents blush.  However, shouldn't adults be part of that mix as well since they say some unusual things too.  I'm not a psychologist but it might be wiser to categorize us all capable of saying and doing the darndest things and that would just about size it up.  And when I say doing, here might be the latest.

On September 11th of this past year, Antony A. LoBue, also known as "Tony the Vet" launched his year-long Walkathon Across America for the Support Our Veterans Association (SOVA).  LoBue, a senior and wartime veteran with disabilities, plans to walk across the United States.  He left San Diego and plans on arriving at Ground Zero in New York City on Sept. 11, 2011, the 10-year anniversary of  that fateful day.   LoBue, recently founded SOVA as a veteran, consumer-driven, grass-roots movement that will work to help all veterans, their families, veteran support groups and communities.


Tony the Vet "Carrying the Flag"
LoBue served in various capacities while in the service.  He was a 1LT Commander in the Army from 1964-66 stationed at Fort Hood, Texas.  After active duty, he joined the Texas National Guard  where he was CPT Commander at Temple, Texas until 1969.  After leaving the Army,  Lobue was active in a variety of positions ranging from an English instructor, to a Peace Corp Volunteer, to a Fundraiser and Real Estate agent.  Not one of those jobs smacked of political activism.  Yet....as the years continued to pass him by, LoBue continued to feel a pull in advocating for veterans benefits.  LoBue talked about what made him decide to do this.  In a sense, he says, he’s trying to “give myself away.”  LoBue says, “I needed to revolutionize my life by having a singular purpose with great passion.  And I decided to do something to help veterans, since I am a senior, disabled and a veteran."

The 3,600 mile journey that Tony began last year will no doubt be a long one in a variety of ways.  LoBue walks 10-15 miles a day on a route he plotted some time ago.  Each day of this venture, LoBue is hoping to open the eyes of someone that can come alongside either in support of the walk or in furthering the exposure for increased Veterans benefits and support.  As I checked in today, LoBue was somewhere near VanHorn, Texas maintaining a pace that will enable him to arrive in New York at his expected time.  Yes, people do say and do the darndest things.  In this case, Tony the Vet is demonstrating that doing is much better than saying.  Tony has a Facebook page that you can follow his journey @Tony the Vet....Best to you Mr. LoBue.


The Route to New York.....Arrival Date 9-11

YGG,

John       

Saturday, January 1, 2011

A FAMILY JOURNAL: FATHER TO SON FOR NEW YEAR'S-VOLUME 8

The journal you are about to read is part of an ongoing dialogue.  The words are a conversation between "the family" of
the soldier experience.  It's Dads, Moms, Sons,  Daughters,  Relatives and Friends sharing their thoughts of a particular day and/or it could be the soldiers journal entry detailing his or hers.  I believe there are many, many people keeping a journal through the Afghan War.  If you want to share an entry of yours email it to jkmyfathersvoice@gmail.com  Your post will be strictly confidential,  no names will be used.  In addition, locations overseas will not be mentioned for security purposes except the country of origin.  Some editing may be done to further protect the journal participant.

Hey Sonpo:

Well, 2011 is here...but of course you already knew that since you're 10 and a half hours ahead of us.  Sure seems strange as we go headlong into the new year with so many of our soldiers gone.  It has been good to see some of your buddies coming home on leave now.  I can only imagine what must be going through the minds of the families and the soldiers on those reunions.  Hopefully, we can experience that in the near future.

I wanted to reflect on a couple of things from this past year.  First off, you have changed immensely.  I think of the young man we saw off to Basic in September of 2009 to the man you are now...WOW!!  It's unbelievable to think that you are 20 years old and that you are setting sail on your life-long dreams.  And secondly, it appears that God is creeping back into your life.  Your card to the family at Christmas time spoke volumes to the maturity you now exhibit.

I want to continue  encouraging you in your spiritual journey.  Which leads me to a point and a book that I want to share.  An old saying, according to some experts, states that there are no atheists in a foxhole.  Hardship, horror, fear, loneliness and rage have driven many warriors to reach for their spiritual side.   A book written by Charles Sasser, "God in the Foxhole",  talks about many experiences he saw during wartime.  Every one of his stories presents accounts of God's amazing grace covering and protecting soldiers. One particular Bible verse that Sasser mentioned often struck a chord with soldiers was Matthew 17: 20;

".....I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there' and it will move.  Nothing will be impossible for you."

The Foxhole Provides Reflection Time
So, I'm leaving you with that Bible verse.  Something you can hang on to.  I'm not sure how much time you've spent in a foxhole or out overnight during your missions.  I can imagine though, that there are any number of experiences you can share with your fellow soldiers about God's grace and protection.  I pray that you become bold in that mission.  Remember that you are not alone!!!

So...that's my New Year's musings.....not resolutions, but thoughts in areas we can continue to grow together as a family.  Happy New Year!!!  213 days or 30 weeks to go however you look at it!  Praying for your safety, son.  Praying for you daily......

Love, Dadpo

                                                -30-